The Summer holidays have begun, and already my stress levels are high! The thing is, I work from home, and altho’ they are old enough to entertain themselves, my son and daughter prefer to ‘entertain’ themselves by seriously getting on each others nerves and being decidedly vocal about it!! I could accept this more readily were we talking about two toddlers vying for Mum’s attention – but these 2 are,shall we say, more mature in years…. As a result, work has been difficult to say the least, and I was pleased when the eldest went away for 5 days with Dad to see the Hungarian Grand Prix – at least I could get things done. Mmm, here is the newest problem….I miss them both such a lot, and daughter keeps coming to tell me how much she misses her big brother. What??? How crazy is that?
Anyhow, the truth is that we are, indeed, missing them….rows, spats and all.
All this brings to mind how very difficult it becomes to exert your own will and ‘house rules’ on kids of a certain age. I can recall in my teens a time when I vowed to myself that I would NOT be doing things the way my parents were……Well, that never happened! I expect my son,too, is feeling the same at this moment in time. He’s all ready to take life by the throat and really shake it up, and meanwhile me and his Dad stand on the sidelines shaking our heads ruefully and thinking ‘Yeah, he’ll learn!!’
So, for all those young people ready to take life on, start here with My Rules.